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When One Door Doesn't Open: How to Reach Decision Makers Through the Next Stakeholder

For sellers stuck on one silent contact in an account worth winning.

You leave with five other doors into the same company, a line for each and a rule for doing it without going behind anyone's back.

By Intandemly team · Updated 9 Oct 2026 · 4 min read · Free, no sign-up

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What you'll get

  • 4 copy-ready blocks
  • 1 table
  • 4 min read
  • Sideways or down
  • Sideways, filled in (illustrative, not a real company)
  • Up
  • Outside (asking for an introduction)

How to use it

The hack

when your contact stops replying, do not write to them a sixth time. Ask who else in the company owns part of the same problem, and open that door, openly.

The hack: when your contact stops replying, do not write to them a sixth time. Ask who else in the company owns part of the same problem, and open that door, openly.

Five other doors

DoorWho it isWhy they will talk
SidewaysA peer of your contact in a function the problem touches (IT, finance, operations)It affects their numbers too
DownThe person who lives with the problem every dayThey know the detail and are rarely asked
UpYour contact's manager, or the executive who stated the initiativeIt is their priority you are writing about
The processProcurement, security or legalThey know whether anything is planned and how it would be bought
OutsideA customer of yours, a partner or a former employee who knows someone thereAn introduction beats any cold message

Start sideways or down. Go up when you have something specific to say about a goal that leader has stated in public.

What to say

Sideways or down

Sideways or down
Hi [First name],

To be open with you, I wrote to [contact] about [topic] and haven't heard back, which may mean it sits elsewhere.

From [their function], the question is usually [their concern]. How does [company] handle that today? If someone else owns it, a name is all I need.

[Your name]

Sideways, filled in (illustrative, not a real company)

Sideways, filled in (illustrative, not a real company)
Hi Marcus,

To be open with you, I wrote to Dana Whitfield about planning for Northfield's second distribution centre and haven't heard back, which may mean it sits elsewhere.

From IT, the question is usually whether a planning tool fits the warehouse system you already run. How does Northfield handle that today? If someone else owns it, a name is all I need.

Sam Carter

Up

Up
Hi [First name],

In [source] you said [company] plans to [initiative]. I've been in touch with [contact or team] about one part of it, [specific part].

One question, if you have a moment: who is carrying that part this year? I'd rather speak to the right person than the nearest one.

[Your name]

Outside (asking for an introduction)

Outside (asking for an introduction)
Hi [First name],

I'm trying to reach the person at [company] who looks after [specific part]. I think you know [name or team].

Would you be comfortable forwarding two lines from me? If not, no problem at all, and I won't mention your name.

[Your name]

The rule that keeps it honest

Say who else you have written to. Every message above does. If your first contact later hears about it from a colleague, they should hear exactly what you told the colleague. A second door opened in secret closes the first one for good.

Check before you send

  • Have I given the first contact a fair run (several touches, each with something new)?
  • Does the problem really touch the next person's job?
  • Do I have one question that belongs to their role, not a copy of the first email?
  • Have I logged it against the account, so a colleague does not write to the same person tomorrow?

Three mistakes to avoid

  1. Going straight to the CEO because the manager was quiet. Relevant beats senior.
  2. Sending five people the same email on the same day. They compare notes.
  3. Dropping the first contact. When a second conversation starts, tell them. They often rejoin.

Make it a habit: each time a contact goes quiet, write the next relevant door on the account's map before you send anything else.

Why this works on named accounts

On a lead list, a contact who goes quiet is a dead lead and the sequence moves to the next row. On an account list the company is the unit, so one silent person changes very little. The account still fits, the problem is still there, and several other people have a stake in it. We have worked this way since April 2017, and the line we use for it is simple: when one door does not open, look for another relevant door. The word that matters is relevant. You are not going round someone. You are finding the person whose job the question belongs to.
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